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Start Feeling Calm and Secure, No Matter What They Do
If youâre tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, and constantly looking outside yourself for reassurance, this is where it starts.
You donât need to fix yourself.
You donât need to try harder in relationships.
You need internal safety.
And thatâs exactly what this workbook helps you build.
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If This Sounds Like You, Youâre in the Right Place
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You overanalyze texts, tone, and silence
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You feel anxious when someone pulls away
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You crave reassurance but feel guilty asking for it
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You give more than you receive, and feel drained
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You know youâre abandoning yourself⌠but donât know how to stop
This workbook was created for the moment you realize:
âI donât want to live like this anymore.â
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What Youâll Learn & Practice Inside
⨠Why You React the Way You Do (And Why Youâre Not âToo Muchâ)
If youâve ever wondered, âWhy do I spiral over things other people seem fine with?â,  this will finally make sense. Youâll connect the dots so you can stop blaming yourself and start trusting that thereâs nothing wrong with you.
⨠How to Stop Letting Other People Control Your Mood
No more waiting on texts, tone, or reassurance to feel okay. Youâll start seeing how your peace slowly slipped into other peopleâs hands, and how to take it back so your emotional state isnât riding on someone elseâs behavior.
⨠What to Do When Anxiety Hits (Instead of Spiraling)
Those moments when your chest tightens, your thoughts race, and you feel the urge to fix things right now? Youâll learn what actually helps you calm down in real life, not âjust breatheâ advice that never works.
⨠How to Figure Out What You Need (Before You Overthink It Away)
You know something feels off⌠but you canât always name it. This helps you get clear on what youâre feeling and needing without minimizing yourself, apologizing, or talking yourself out of it.
⨠How to Protect Your Energy Without Feeling Like the Bad Guy
Youâll start practicing small, doable boundaries that donât require a personality transplant or a big confrontation, just enough to help you feel more grounded, respected, and at peace with yourself.
What This Workbook Actually Does
The Securely Attached Workbook is not just information â itâs integration.
It gently helps you:
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Understand why you react the way you do
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Shift your focus from them â back to yourself
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Regulate your nervous system in real time
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Rebuild trust in your own thoughts, needs, and feelings
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Start meeting yourself instead of chasing reassurance
This is how security begins, from the inside out.
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This Is for You If:
â You identify with anxious attachment
â You want to feel secure without relying on others
â Youâre ready to stop abandoning yourself
â You want practical tools â not just theory
â Youâre ready for a first step that actually feels doable
If youâve ever thought:
âI know what I should do⌠I just canât access it when Iâm anxiousâ, this workbook bridges that gap.
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You donât need someone else to make you feel safe.
You just need to start building safety within yourself, and this is where it begins.
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A Journey of Self-Discovery, Self-Love, & Becoming Authentically You
Meet Erica: Your Relationship Therapist & Dating Coach
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Iâm here and I get it. I have been exactly where you are, stuck in a whirlpool of complex emotions and frustrating relationships.
My journey, like yours, was filled with confusion, second-guessing myself, and powerlessness.
After years of grappling with anxious attachment and codependency, I began the journey of healing and a HUGE component of that journey was self discovery.
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If you're anxiously attached, you are probably used to expending a lot of energy outside of yourself.
You may focus your time and attention on others, hoping that if you are accommodating and pleasing enough, you'll get what you want from that other person.
I learned that being so focused on others meant that I was spending very little time noticing myself.
Developing a secure attachment style is going to require that you begin to tune your attention inward, discovering the 5 pillars of your identity that have been minimized, ignored, or downplayed.
This workbook is going to help you identify these 5 core pillars of yourself so that you can show up in your relationships very clear about who you are, what you won't tolerate, and what you want in a relationship.Â
Once you are clear about these parts of yourself, you'll not only embody a sense of security within yourself, you'll attract a partner who is actually compatible with the true, authentic YOU.