Stay With You Workbook: Heal Self-Abandonment & Activate Your Secure Self
Stop losing yourself in relationshipsâand start feeling secure from within.
Start the Workbook for $27!You've spent so long trying to be chosen...
Now it's time to feel safe â with yourself.
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This isnât about learning more information.
Itâs about embodying the feeling of security, no matter what they doâstarting now.
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Start the Workbook for $27!You don't need to know more.
You need to start living what you already knowâand trusting yourself to stay with you.
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Youâre self-aware.
You know you overgive.
You know you shrink to stay close.
You know you silence your truth to avoid being âtoo much.â
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And still...when relationships feel uncertain, your body spirals.
You disconnect from your needs.
Your nervous system panics.Â
You question your worth.
You twist yourself to be chosen.
You disappearâjust to maintain a relationships with them.
You forget how to stay connected with you.
Itâs not your fault.
Itâs a nervous system pattern. A survival response.Â
Itâs because you never learned how to feel safe in your own body when someone was pulling away.
But now?
Youâre ready to do relationships differently.
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Iâm Ready to Feel SecureThe Stay With You Workbook is a powerful day practice to teach you how to :
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Stop spiraling when they pull away
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Regulate your nervous system in real time
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Express your truth without fear of rejection
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Set boundaries without the guilt spiral
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Rebuild your sense of self-worth in real time so that you actually feel deserving of what you need & feel
You donât have to earn love by abandoning yourself.
This isnât a workbook about attachment theory.
This is about learning how to embody security.
So you can stop abandoning yourself and start choosing yourself, again and again.
You just need tools that help you stay with yourself, even when itâs hard.
Whatâs includedÂ
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Essential healing themes + intentions rooted in healing the old patterns that have been keeping you stuck
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Guided audio grounding practices to regulate and recenter
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Powerful journal prompts to connect with your truth
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Secure Self Challenges to help you embody what youâre learning
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Breathwork, boundaries, and self-expression tools
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Healing ThemesÂ
Theme 1: Return to You
Come back to your body instead of chasing connection
â Interrupt the spiral and rebuild safety from the inside out
Theme 2: Feel Without Fear
Allow and validate your emotions without shame
â Learn that emotional expression is safetyânot rejection
Theme 3: Boundaries Are Self-Love
Set boundaries that protect your peace
â Reclaim your energy without guilt or fear of being âtoo muchâ
Theme 4: Speak the Truth
Let your voice be your anchorânot your apology
â Practice truth-telling that builds self-trust
Theme 5: Choose Yourself Again
Rewire your identity from anxious to anchored
â Reclaim your Secure Selfâone choice, one moment, at a time
Who This Is For
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This workbook is for you if:
- You constantly overthink, overgive, or over-explain
- You disappear in love to avoid rejection
- Youâre tired of chasing emotionally unavailable people
- You want to feel grounded, calm, and clear in dating
- Youâre ready to embody your Secure Selfânot just read about what secureÂ
Why It Works
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Because healing isnât about âfiguring it out.â
Itâs about feeling safe enough to choose differently.
It helps you practice a new identityâone breath, one truth, one boundary at a time.
 đCalm your attachment triggers in real time
đ Offer yourself acceptance instead of chasing validation
đ Build emotional self-trust, breath by breath
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Pricing + Details:
⨠SALE: $27 USD (Reg. $47)
đĽ Digital PDF workbook
đ§ Secure self challenges to get you to stop thinking and start doing
đ Guided meditations + journal prompts for integration
đŻ Self-paced â no calls, no pressure, no overwhelm
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Is this for me if I already know Iâm anxiously attached?
Do I need to be in a relationship?
Is there a time limit for this?
Final Note
Youâve read the books. Youâve listened to the podcasts.
But knowing isnât healing.
Feeling is.
Let this workbook be the first time you stop reading about being secure and start becoming secure.
Youâre not âtoo much.â
Youâre just finally ready to be with yourself in the moments you used to abandon you.