A dating reset for anxious attachers ready to stop getting attached too soon—and start choosing with clarity, confidence, and self-worth.

You’ve stopped abandoning yourself.
 Now it’s time to stop choosing people who abandon you.

 

A self-paced mini course to help you stop spiraling in early dating, recognize emotional safety, and start choosing from clarity—not panic.

I’m Ready to Start Choosing Differently

You’re not crazy. You’re not needy.
 But the spiral of early dating makes you feel like you are.

You know you’re overgiving.
 You know you’re ignoring the signs.
 You know you’re getting attached too soon.

But knowing isn’t the same as stopping.
 Not when your body still panics at silence.
 Not when you’ve confused anxiety for chemistry for years.
 Not when the part of you that’s terrified of being left
 keeps choosing the ones who leave.

 

I’m So Ready to Break the Cycle

This course helps you break that cycle.

 

Stop Chasing, Start Choosing is a self-paced dating reset for anxious attachers who are ready to:

 ✅ Stop spiraling when love feels uncertain

✅ Spot red flags before they become heartbreak

✅ Choose partners from clarity, not fear

✅ Stay grounded, regulated, and in your power—even when you're falling for someone

This is the bridge between:
 “I’m aware of my patterns” → and → “I actually date differently now.”

What You'll Walk Away Knowing

 

✅ Stop emotionally attaching before there’s earned safety
 ✅ Trust your body’s signals without spiraling
 ✅ Build emotional pacing + boundaries without guilt
 ✅ Anchor into a Secure Self identity—so you date from peace, not panic
 ✅ Finally feel clear, grounded, and empowered in early dating

I Want to Date Like My Secure Self

Module Breakdown

 

đŸ’« Module 1: The Chaser Pattern

Why you’re drawn to people who don’t choose you back—finally, explained.

💛 Module 2: Dating from Worth, Not Wounds

Unpack how your “type” is rooted in early pain—and build a new dating identity rooted in worth.

🔍 Module 3: Red Flags, Intuition & Discernment

Learn how to separate anxiety from gut instinct—and stop missing the signs.

đŸ§± Module 4: Emotional Boundaries + Pacing

Stop fusing too fast. Learn to share without oversharing and protect your energy like it’s sacred.

đŸŒ± Module 5: Identity Reclamation

You’re not the chaser anymore. You’re the chooser. This is where it all clicks.

What’s Included

  • đŸŽ„ 5 short, potent video lessons

  • đŸ–Šïž Guided workbook with prompts, reflection tools, and checklists

  • 💬 Secure Scripts for clear, grounded communication

  • 🧭 Red Flag Decoder, Energy Leak Inventory, Secure Self Mantras

  • đŸ§˜â€â™€ïž Nervous system rituals + pacing exercises 

  • đŸ“Č Lifetime access + self-paced format

Who It’s For

 

This is for you if:

  • You’ve been doing the inner work but still spiral in early dating

  • You get attached too quickly—even when you know they’re not right for you

  • You confuse anxiety for attraction and fear setting boundaries  
  • You want to stop chasing people—and start choosing with peace
Yes, I’m Ready to Choose Differently

Enroll today for just $97 (full price is $147 USD)

📩 Instant access. Self-paced. Lifetime access.
Buy Now + Start the Reset

You don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
 You just need to stop abandoning yourself long enough to choose what feels safe.
 Let’s build that version of you—starting today.

You’ve done enough chasing.
 It’s your turn to choose.

 

Let’s Begin